Captain Obvious

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  No more by us!

  by Atlantis in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  no more boes or kingdom ministries will be posted by us on this board.

  there is a very important reason why!

  beware of anyone encouraging you to post any boes on this board.

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  Captain Obvious

  Thank you, Atlantis for posting secret WT info on here in the past. It has been a huge help to be able to have access to what only the most brainwashed Dubs have.

  I hope it isn't causing you any issues, will check out your site.
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  Let's make a list of the families ruined by the Watchtower

  by Faithful Witness in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  the jehovah's witnesses came to our door, claiming to hold the secrets of family happiness.

  they told me they had the "one true religion," and had come to save my life.

  i was a bible student for quite awhile, along with my husband.

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  Captain Obvious

  My family and family-in-law are all JWs. My mother is currently DFed for the second time, and shuns me even though I have told her not to because "it's jehovahs arrangement."

  One day I too will likely be DF'd, and shunned by all. My only hope is that my wife sees the light before then and comes with me. It's a terrible situation that only a cult would put someone into. My long-term goal is to have a happy, religion free family So that future generations of my family are free to love and accept each other without human-imposed conditions.
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  Bibles, What bibles ??

  by Tech49 in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  so....... captain obvious asks........where are the placement bibles then?.

  we have the newly massaged, repainted, sister-proof nwt (with its errors .

  but the larger question remains..... if this is an organization that is here to spread the good news from the holy scriptures, why is it that all the rolly carts and literature counters are chock full of bible teach books, but not one bible can be found?.

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  Captain Obvious

  I said no such thing! Lol
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  Crap....help please

  by DS211 in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  so tonight my wife looked iver the wt for tomorrow.

  she said what she got out of it was that apostates are negative murmurers who can cause you to question jehovah and his earthly org and that it reminded her of the negativity caused when i told her i read ray franz's book.

  she said it caused me to question service, family worship night, and praying together.

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  Captain Obvious

  Well we apostates can be pretty negative. Do just enough to keep it from becoming a sore subject. play the long game my friend
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  I will give my husband the divorce he wants

  by losingit in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  not because i agree with him.

  because i do not want the divorce.

  but because i love him and i want to respect him.

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  Captain Obvious

  How are you supposed to get the respect you want if you're a pushover? Rolling over and playing dead won't solve anything. Don't forget people usually project themselves onto the people around them. Whatever he is complaining about with you, is probably a fault of his. If he has been abusive in any way, he NEEDS to understand this. You two may not be a great pair but just giving up will only make the cycle repeat itself with your next partners.

  You can't change him, you can only change yourself. Do things for yourself, be more independent. Buy yourself something nice, hire a personal trainer. Be your own woman, one who doesn't take his shit and will NOT put up with any kind of abuse, not for a second. He will have no choice but to respect and admire you. Don't do it for him, do it for yourself. If after some time of this things don't improve, then you can walk away from the marriage knowing there was nothing more you could do. Also you'll be walking away as a more attractive, more interesting you.
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  More on the 5go outer ...........not

  by 5go in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  not really this topic is for my mom that is suffering now please give some experiances of finding out everything (ttatt) or about relatives wanting to leave.

  she apparently is lurking here reading my posts.

  she is suffering horribly and needs the comfort badly..

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  Captain Obvious

  It can be tough for a parent or family member to find out that one of their loved ones wants to leave the org. They likely won't understand, or even want to understand. In the JW mindset the only right answer is the JW answer. The only truth is the JW truth from the slave. This summer we had an entire convention dedicated to truth, which didn't contain a single word about how to actually find the truth in any given matter. Nothing about searching out information from all sources and viewpoints, considering them all objectively in light of presently known facts and information. The general message was, 'if it's from the watchtower or the bible , it's true. If not, it's Not true. If it disagrees in any way with the watchtower or the bible , it is automatically a lie from satan. How are people supposed to make honest decisions with this mindset?

  I can't imagine your mother's pain right now but the fact that she is on here reading yours and others' posts is important. Hopefully she is able to see the fact that you're not a bad person, mislead by the devil. That, and the fact that you've been here since 2006. That's a long time to wake up and remain "in."

  To 5go's mom: welcome to our forum, you will find all types here, all sharing one thing in common. We after a long, objective consideration of our beliefs, the bible, history and the world we live in have all come to the conclusion that this org. Does not have 'The Truth,' it never did. You will find some to be bitter, spiteful. Please remember that these people have been hurt badly by this org. And it's teachings and policies. Some lives have been ruined, families torn apart, loved ones lost because they would not have a simple blood transfusion. The list goes on and on. The knowledge that you have been lied to your whole life is painful.

  For many, learning that the org's policies directly serve to protect its name over the safety of children from pedophiles, or the fact that they were a manner of the UN for 11 years, or that Jerusalem wasn't destroyed in 607 but 587 BCE is a big shock. It also makes it tough to support such a group. Personally, finally accepting that the org. was wrong about 607 and therefore 1914,1918,1919 etc. was the last straw for me. Never another day knocking on doors, preaching what I knew to be lies.

  Hopefully this religion doesn't tear your family apart like it has mine and thousands of others.
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  My mother came for a visit

  by Faithful Witness in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  she has not visited us in over a year, except with my dad.

  we have not had a chance to talk one on one in a very long time.

  she is an actice jw.

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  Captain Obvious

  Just be glad she'll still talk to you! So many of us on here can't even get a single conversation with our mothers.

  And I agree with the above advice, cool it for a while... Let it sink in.
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  A message for Stand For Pure Worship

  by SloppyJoe in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  first welcome to the board for whatever reason you are here.

  if you are here to criticize us, so be it, if you have doubts then look around.

  i just want you to do some research on a member who used to be here named "you know".

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  Captain Obvious

  nope he's not Recovery, I don't think. Recovery was much better read and spoken. He at least made an attempt to refute our arguments. Who knows what happened to him, but he was one of the ones who, despite his arrogance actually had something to say. SFPW is just a troll. Don't feed the troll.
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  List of Circuit Overseers Who Told Me As A Child, "NWT is Most Honest Because It's Not A Dishonest Thought-Translation (Paraphrased Loosely). I Repent, I am Sorry For Lying Now!

  by AuntConnie in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  the pain of all the lies i am learning about the truth is making me think of moving to a nation where legal euthenesia is allowed.

  i take my medicine on a daily basis but it's not working, only so much medication will remove all the decades of guilt, lies being told and human intellect we suffocated by teaching the cult's methods of killing ideas.

  i don't deserve anything, lord jesus christ i repent of all my lies and will try to be a better person.

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  Captain Obvious

  Aunt Connie, is it better to have found out when you consider it to be "late in life," or not at all? Would you rather have died in your ignorance?

  Perhaps you can devote the rest of your life to helping those around you.. Share the truth.
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  Apostate Networking

  by Watchtower-Free in

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  Captain Obvious

  You're right, but sometimes it's the DFing of someone close to you that wakes you up.

  For me, it was my mom. She was/is a DF'd believer. A while ago I told her the shunning is BS and I won't do it anymore. What did she say? "Sorry son, but it's Jehovah's arrangement!" Poor woman. I so wish I could reach her with TTATT